The past few years have seen astrology and spirituality explode on Instagram reels, YouTube channels, and even WhatsApp family groups. Quick-fixes, predictions and gem-studded solutions seem to dominate the space. But does astrology really work that way? Or are we missing its deeper purpose?
We sat down with Shivaani Banssal, an astrologer, numerologist, and Vastu expert, to understand and decode astrology’s real role in our lives. What followed was a conversation that cut through myths and placed responsibility back in our hands.
Astrology is not a shortcut
Shivaani explains that astrology is not a one-size-fits-all remedy. It’s about context. “People think that if they wear a stone, it will fix everything,” she shared. “But unless we see your chart, understand your karmic balance, and the real cause of the problem, no stone or ritual will help. It’s like giving medicine without a diagnosis.”
She believes that this clarity is missing in the social media-driven astrology boom. Viral clips often sell instant results, for example, a mantra for money, a stone to find love, or a pooja for a career. “That’s dangerous,” Shivani said firmly. “Astrology has the power to heal, but it must be applied responsibly.”
Debunking the Biggest Myths
Shivaani also debunked many myths revolving around astrology.
Myth 1: Stones change destiny.
Shivani explained that stones act like amplifiers; they enhance what already exists in your chart. “But if you don’t have the capacity in your karma to achieve something, no stone will create it for you. It can only support.”
Myth 2: Shani is a punisher.
“People fear Saturn,” Shivaani says with a smile. “But Shani isn’t here to destroy you. He’s here to discipline you. He teaches lessons in patience, persistence, and humility. If you resist, it feels like punishment. But if you align, he rewards immensely.”
Myth 3: 36 Gunas guarantee a perfect marriage.
Shivani recalled the story of Ram and Sita, often seen as the ideal couple. “They had 36 Gunas matching, yet their marriage faced many challenges. So compatibility isn’t only about numbers, it’s also about karma and conscious effort.”
Fate, free will, and Google Maps
One of the most fascinating parts of the conversation was Shivani’s simple analogy for destiny.
“Think of astrology like Google Maps,” she said. “Your chart is the map. It shows possible routes, obstacles, and diversions. But the choice of which road to take is always yours. Fate shows the blueprint, free will drives the car.”
She explained that even twins born at the same time don’t live identical lives. Their decisions, education, relationships, and risks they take all shape different outcomes, even under the same cosmic blueprint.
She shares a formula: Fate + Free Will = Destiny.
Menstrual taboo
The conversation also touched on menstrual taboos and their spiritual meaning. Shivani approached this with nuance.
“In earlier times, women during periods were asked to rest, not because they were impure but because their energy was heightened and sensitive,” she explained. “It wasn’t meant as exclusion but as protection. Unfortunately, society twisted it into a stigma.”
She advises focusing on intention. “If you want to pray, pray. If you feel drained, rest. Spirituality is about awareness, not blind rules.”
The current cosmic climate
When asked about the present astrological alignment, Shivani didn’t sugarcoat. “Right now, Mars and Ketu are together. That combination brings aggression, impulsivity, and unrest,” she said.
On a global scale, this energy shows up as conflicts and protests. On a personal level, it can make us react harshly or take rash decisions. “The key is awareness,” she advised. “When you know the energies, you can work with them — pause before reacting, ground yourself, and channel the fire positively.”
What success really means in kalyug
When asked from Shivaani about what she thinks of success in today’s age, she said, “In today’s times, people often mistake success for just money, fame, or power. But real success is living in line with your dharma—your true purpose. Wealth and recognition are only side effects; the real win is feeling peaceful and content inside.”
She explained that many rich or famous people still feel anxious and unhappy. “That’s because outer success without inner balance feels empty. Astrology can guide us towards what our soul truly wants in this life.”
How would the next few years turn out
Shivaani also shared her perspective on the next few years. “2025 to 2027 is a period of karmic closure,” she revealed. “It’s a time when unresolved patterns like personal, familial, even collective, will resurface for healing. You can think of it as a cosmic spring cleaning.”
On a personal level, this may show up as old relationships returning, unfinished projects demanding attention, or emotional wounds resurfacing. If we talk about global scalability, we may witness political upheavals, generational clashes, and societal reforms.
“It may feel chaotic, but it’s actually an invitation to release what no longer serves us. The sooner we accept this, the smoother the transformation will be,” she explained.
Quick Takeaways:
- Stones support your journey; they don’t rewrite your fate.
- Even Lord Ram and Sita had 36 Gunas matched, yet they faced challenges.
- Astrology is like Google Maps. Fate draws the route, and free will drives the car.
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